In the modern society, we usually don’t have the rite of
passage like natives do. Such as killing the monkey that you are grow up with,
or have to live in the forest alone. People want to show others that they are
gown up in their own ways because they do not want to be treated like a child
anymore. When they are trying to prove themselves, they usually want to show
someone that they are different and want gain attention. In this kind of
situation, the decision made are usually foolish or at least it not the normal
decision that the person would made. This kind of decision often leads to life
changing effect, in both good and bad ways.
For
me, I couldn’t think of a situation that I am trying to prove to myself. I
might had try to prove to others but it was never the situation that I know it
and was working toward the goal because of other’s views. I had done series of
things that are consider quit dangerous and things that normal kids at the same
age might not do. Such as living off to the states without parents 3 times in a
role, each last at least 4 months when I was in 5th grade. However I
don’t think I was trying to prove to anyone, I might be working towards a goal
and encourage myself but its not for a transition stage for me. not as how I feel
it.
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